Wednesday, July 10, 2013

Texas?

How are the guys in Texas? Anyone know? More Austin and Dallas than Houston. Ready for a change...

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  1. Just hope they don't get you pregnant.

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  2. I would highly recommend it considering the men in SF are a bunch of geeks and douchebags.

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    1. Many years ago, a friend told me to move out of SF or face a life of spinsterhood. I should've listened to him.

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    2. I think men are men everywhere but that said, more of my friends in Chicago, Wisconsin, Atlanta, and Texas are finding love online. SF is full of 35 year-old Peter Pans who work for startups that cater to their every need - food, laundry service, shuttles. So these boys don't know how to take care of themselves.

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    3. That's good to know, thanks for sharing. Ummm, why are both of us still in SF? Let's start packing!

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    4. Well this is disheartening. Not all of us are geeks, douche bags, or "Peter Pans". But I can certainly see why you would think that. Online dating doesn't really bring out the best in us either, not matter your gender. I can't remember the last girl I dated from OKC that didn't have a checklist of demands.

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    5. I really think SF is terrible for dating. I know some ladies who have moved out of SF, found the right guy, and got married in about a year. Yeah, I do hear guys complaining about the girls out here too. We are all smart people with some desirable attributes, so in theory, dating should be good here...

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    6. Add cheaters to the list.

      Watch out for SF lawyers in their early 30's on OKC.

      I found out one guy has had a gf for close to a year, yet he's still on there daily. Ugh.

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    7. Yikes, maybe I've gone out with this lawyer without knowing he has a gf! It's a small world...

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    8. Maybe it's too many choices. There is such a thing as paralysis by analysis.

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    9. You should read the Paradox of Choice by Barry Schwartz :)

      This lawyer/cheater guy on OkC - horrible! You should publish his username.

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    10. Funny, I've read it twice!

      The cheater screen name would be very interesting

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    11. I did some thinking. I would post his username, but I don't know the specifics of his arrangement with her yet.

      If they're in an open relationship, then technically he's not really cheating, right?

      I can tell you ladies this: his name is Adam. Any of you possibly dated or talked to him?

      I also discovered his gf knows 3 other people that I know (2 dating contacts, 1 acquaintance). Definitely a small world!

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    12. Nope, haven't spoken to an Adam. How about you, Sabrina?

      Hmm, true, if he is in an open relationship, it wouldn't be cheating. Oh my, SF is really that small...

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    13. Nope, haven't spoken to an Adam. SF is really small sometimes though. An open relationship wouldn't technically be cheating, but I certainly wouldn't want to date someone who is in that situation. I'm not sharing my man :)

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  3. I just don't understand the men in SF. Perhaps I can expand it to the Bay Area as well. The best place to go is the midwest.

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    1. Oh no, this guy issue in SF applies to the entire Bay Area? I was hoping it would be better in the South Bay/Silicon Valley

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  4. It's legions better than NYC

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    1. Hi, how many years did you spend in Dallas and NY? I do find Dallas to be quite interesting

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  5. What is the best neighborhood to meet decent men in their 30s?

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    1. I'm going to assume this question isn't for me due to the "decent" part. Anyone have suggestions for SF, Dallas, or NY?

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  6. Adventuresaurus girl, you seem to date a lot. What are your thoughts on who pays for the dates? It seems to be strange in SF. I think the guys expect the girls to pay their share or pay?

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    1. It could be $5 or $500, guy always pays. I believe in "courting" and guys trying to impress ladies by showing they can be providers.

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