Saturday, June 29, 2013

Is It Me?

Is it me?  I don't think I've done anything different.  I certainly haven't been dressing differently.  I've noticed a lot more guys eye f*cking me and saying hello (mostly on the street and grocery stores).  This could be because:
  1. It's been hot out, like really hot for SF (mid high 70s) and people are nicer when it's warm out or
  2. I am just noticing other people passing me by

Thursday, June 27, 2013

Stupid Brain

The Brain is stupid when it comes to the ladies, me, both, etc.  He hasn't learned that jealousy does not work with me.  He also doesn't realize that I've blocked him from my facebook news feed. 

A mutual friend of ours (more my friend than his) told me to check out his fb profile.  He's tagged in several pictures with many different girls.  I know he has to approve all his tags.  What's even more interesting is when we are tagged in a photo together (even if there are other people), he does not approve them.

You haven't heard me talk about The Brain much because I really just don't care.  He's gone from a maybe (months ago) to me hiding from him.  Yeah, I've been flat out avoiding any functions I know he is attending.

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

Day Of The Week

I came across this and I think it's right on about Saturdays.  It talks about the significance of a date in relation to the day of the week.  Saturday night is of course most important.  I've always thought if a guy would rather go to a birthday party for a friend's sister nine times removed, he's not interested enough and gets dropped.

Sunday, June 23, 2013

He's About To Get Blocked

This guy has been emailing me for what seems like forever, it's probably closer to a month (which is still a really long time).  He asks 100 questions, but hasn't asked me to meet up.  He's about to get blocked because his incessant questions are annoying.  If he wants to know about me so badly, he should ask me out in his next email.  Pretty sure he won't, so he's getting blocked.

Friday, June 21, 2013

Happy First Day Of Summer!

The weather has been incredible in SF, hope it says this way!  Unfortunately, SF is known for ultra cold summers, so we'll see if global warming really did a number on SF.

Summer like days means people are everywhere.  I've talked about the weather before and I still believe warm weather is not good for long term relationships.  Many breakup and many want to "play the field."

Wednesday, June 19, 2013

Please No

The guy I went out with last week did contact me. I said, "It was nice to meet you, thanks."  He's a smart guy, going to hope he knows that means no more dates since I did not say, "Let's go out again."

Sunday, June 16, 2013

Even More Obnoxious In Person

I went to a big fundraiser over the weekend.  A guy came up to me and didn't say hello or any other standard niceties.  Instead, he launched into "Where do you work and what do you do there?"  Yes, I found this to be even more obnoxious in person than over OkC messages. 

He was looking for a job!  Found out from a friend.  Sorry, I don't like it when people ask me for a job when I am in black tie attire on a weekend evening and barely know who I am speaking to.  I didn't answer his questions and just said, "Oh, I see my friend" and walked away.

Friday, June 14, 2013

Really, Does This Work?

Found this to be a horrible OkC message. Guy wrote, "What do you do for a living? Do you like your company?"  Seems like he's looking for a job, not a date.

Do ladies actually respond to his ridiculous questions? I found them to be irritating. He wasn't cute, but I still would have found them to be irritating had he been cute. 

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Crap, Crap, Crap

As you may have noticed, I haven't been going on many dates.  I wanted some me time and I think that's totally fair.  Well, I went out with a guy tonight.  He's very smart, sorta funny, nice, chivalrous, etc.  However, I really don't think I am into him. 

I always feel really bad when a guy says he wants to see me again and the feelings are not exactly mutual.  Crap, crap, crap.  I didn't tell him I didn't want to see him again, but I also didn't answer his question of "Would you like to get together again?"  Maybe he gets it because I didn't answer the question?

Monday, June 10, 2013

I Was Just Talking About This!

So, I was just talking about how I never see a guy's profile talking about video games, watching tv, and other non strenuous/outdoor activities.  Well, a guy just contacted me, and in his spare time he likes to watch tv and play video games!  Awesome, I am going to reply!

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Online Dating Observations

I've chatted with some guy friends and have learned most online dating girls are "foodies" and "love travel."

Things that I am not a fan of (this applies to guys):
  • Motorcycles
  • Jumping out of planes, off cliffs, etc. because how often do these guys really do this?
  • Posing in front of a car (even worse, a car that the guy does not own)
  • "Love the outdoors" or "love staying active"
I wonder if guys are saying things like "love the outdoors" because they really do.  Or, are they saying it to impress the ladies?  When I see "love the outdoors," I am very turned off because that spells a life of camping, getting up at the crack of dawn (literally), getting eaten alive by mosquitoes, etc. 

Yes, loving the outdoors would impress ladies who love the outdoors; what percentage of ladies are very into the outdoors?

Monday, June 3, 2013

Still Annoying

Based on the drunken FB photos from Saturday early morning (4am), The Brain is trying to get my attention.  This is still annoying, he's getting hidden from my news feed.  Think he's trying to say, look at how awesome my night was.  I was invited to the same party and did not go because I don't want to see him.  If all of my good friends were going to be there I would've gone; this was not the case.

Saturday, June 1, 2013

This Is Getting Really Annoying

Besides Ok Cupid, I have other online dating profiles (who doesn't these days).  The Brain is usually a match (for some unknown reason) and thinks it necessary to contact me off those sites.  Is he trying to be funny?  Can someone tell me why (besides wanting to me in my head like the anonymous commenter pointed out a couple of weeks ago)? 

This is getting really annoying.  I'm okay when I am puzzled, I am not okay when I am annoyed.  I was annoyed with Smart Guy and we all know what happened to him (for those of you new to the site, I never spoke to him again even though he sent countless texts).

Furthermore, I see guys I used to date or am friends with on these dating sites all the time.  I do NOT contact them via these sites because I am a normal human being.