Wednesday, October 16, 2013


I read Malcolm Gladwell's Blink years ago and do not remember much about it.  The main thing I do remember had to do with trusting your gut.  So, when I meet a guy and think to myself "I'm not interested," I am going to go with that and refrain from giving him a shot.  I cannot think of any examples where I gave a guy a shot and ended up actually being into him and having it all go well.  I can remember many instances of giving a guy a shot and never getting into him.  I think I am also doing him a favor...


  1. I'm so afraid to trust my gut partly because my naivite suggests everyone deserves a chance. On the other hand, I can't agree more with you, that it has never ended well.

    1. You deserve the best! So, no, not everyone deserves a chance ;) Try the gut thing out and let me know how it goes!