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Wednesday, October 16, 2013
Blink
I read Malcolm Gladwell's Blink years ago and do not remember much about it. The main thing I do remember had to do with trusting your gut. So, when I meet a guy and think to myself "I'm not interested," I am going to go with that and refrain from giving him a shot. I cannot think of any examples where I gave a guy a shot and ended up actually being into him and having it all go well. I can remember many instances of giving a guy a shot and never getting into him. I think I am also doing him a favor...
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I'm so afraid to trust my gut partly because my naivite suggests everyone deserves a chance. On the other hand, I can't agree more with you, that it has never ended well.
ReplyDeleteYou deserve the best! So, no, not everyone deserves a chance ;) Try the gut thing out and let me know how it goes!
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