Friday, March 28, 2014
2nd Date
So, this guy asked me out again. I haven't replied yet because I really don't know if I want to go out with him again. He had a pleasant time, but there wasn't any chemistry. I can't even remember what he looks like. I guess I could give it another shot, but wouldn't that be a waste of time?
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The chances of you having chemistry on a first date from online is rare. Online dates are practically blind dates. They're a way to actually see the person and talk face to face. Are they attractive to me? Is their personality pleasant?
ReplyDeleteI think that chemistry happens once you both become a little more comfortable with each other. That could take a few dates. Hell, it might take meeting each others friends or even sleeping together. But on a first date? Good luck with that.
I have a very tough time with the attractive part, like good looking guy, but I don't see myself wanting to make out with him kind of a thing...is that how chemistry is defined?
DeleteChemistry is probably a hugely subjective thing. But I would consider the attractiveness thing a taste. I've met plenty of good looking women. But there has only been a few that I personally found attractive.
DeleteChemistry, to me, is more about how you get along. Do you have a good time with this person? Can you easily carry on a conversation with them? Do you find yourself missing them when apart?
Did he kiss you? If he hasn't then typically you wont feel it. Just take a chance :)
ReplyDeleteHe did not kiss me
DeleteTake a chance, first dates are really hard to figure out chemistry. If by date 2 you feel nothing, then you probably won't. At the least, you could come out with a new friend or contact.
ReplyDeleteTrue, I guess date #2 here we go
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