Oops I Did It Again

Okay, so I have this problem. My guy friends don't want to be kept as guy friends. Oops I did it again. I went over to my friend Greg's apartment for dinner and movies. Unfortunately, I get the feeling he is into me at times. For example when he wanted to sit closer and and the many minutes he spent watching me watch TV (I pretended I didn't notice). Greg is a sweet guy, but I just don't see him like that and I thought he knew??

We discussed Aquaman; Greg was with me when I met Aquaman a couple of weeks back. His thoughts on Aquaman?

• "You can do so much better" (Hmm, I was impressed by his stats)
  
• "I think he was just trying to get laid" (Let me reiterate, he did not try or suggest anything)
  
• "He was way to aggressive...to the point of desperation" (Hmm, aggressive = not lazy in my book)
  

Theory
Guys aren't catty? Correct, they are much worse. Always slamming the competition, even if they don't have a realistic shot. Because Aquaman was trashed, I actually think more of him.

I guess I won't be bailing Saturday night...too early to tell, but I am more motivated to go now vs. before I saw Greg.

Eject!!

Okay, f*ck. I really really want to bail on tomorrow night. Is it too late to book a flight somewhere? This is soooo typical of me. LOL

Let Him Come To You

I am a firm believer in not talking to guys and letting them come up to me. Let's take the bar for example. I go to bars a lot. I walk in with my crew. I know at least one guy will inevitably approach me. When that happens, it's because he is interested. Maybe he wants to get to know me or maybe he wants to go home with me (yeah, I put the brakes on that one with a quickness).

If I talk to a guy first, he might talk to me just because I am there, not necessarily because he is interested in me. He might think, "This chick is into me, let's see if she'll come home with me tonight." No guy is going to turn down free easy ass.

Let's Meet For a Drink

When I meet a guy and he eventually texts me "Let's grab a drink," he drops 2 points. He can have those 2 points back when I respond with "I don't do drink dates" (or something along those lines) and he comes up with something else.

Theory

I don't like drink dates and always suggest something else.

• It's kinda hard to weed a guy out when I am tipsy
• Very loud place
• He's probably trying to get me drunk = bad intentions

And I Thought I Was Busy

Weekend Plans?

Aquaman called tonight to discuss getting together in the near future. Tomorrow doesn't work for me (he totally wanted to know what I have planned). He seemed to have forgotten how packed his weekend would be. Anyway, instead of issuing a raincheck, he invited me to dinner with him and a small group of his pals Friday and an apartment party on Saturday. I was very eh about all of the above, but he insisted he wanted me at one and/or both of these events. Passed on dinner, said maybe to the party.

Theory

I don't know about you all, but I would NEVER invite some guy I just met to meet my friends (you guys) and don't recommend it. Why? Because if stuff ends ugly, you would still have to hear "Hey, whatever happened to Guy X?" That would be seriously irritating and the last thing you would want to hear. Also, this means he can't really hit on other girls that are there unless he wants to be dismissed. He could be vetting me, but isn't it a bit early to go this route?

Memory Loss?

He admitted he does not remember everything we talked about when we met a couple of weeks back...blame the booze. He claims he remembers what I look like; can't really say the same for him...LOL

Back To Class

Dance Class

• A very awkward boy who has probably never touched a girl in his life was shaking like a leaf and sweating profusely...gross
• A boob level (short) old guy kept trying to get me to look him in the eyes...no thanks
• On my walk home some guy kept shouting "bonita" at me.  So I replied with something I figured he would understand, "I'll cut you"

Staying Around SF

I thought about going down to LA this week / weekend. However, I really don't want to miss salsa class and just got back from AZ. So, just decided to stay around SF...

Aquaman and I discussed getting together Thursday or Friday night earlier this week. Haven't heard from him, so I made plans for Thursday (which don't include him), still figuring out Friday...