Wednesday, October 26, 2016
Inappropriate
Travel Guy asked me out for dinner. It was much too late, I'm busy. Also, there's been a few sexual innuendos in our past two dates. It is very likely that I won't be seeing him again. We don't know each other very well at all, so, inappropriate. And I've decided I don't want to get to know him better. I'm hoping he'll just stop asking me out. I think it's obnoxious if I accept a dinner date just to break up with him.
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Yeah I'd ghost on him, usually I am against ghosting but sometimes lessons need to be learned and he won;t be so dumb next time. I always try to think, okay if I sleep with him, how am I going to feel afterwards if he doesn't call, etc. That usually helps.
ReplyDeleteI want to ghost on him. Ghosting is my preferred way because most of the time, they've offended me in such a way that I don't think they've earned a real breakup
DeleteExactly - they wasted our time and in our 30's I just don't feel like wasting another dinner on another loser. Sometimes I literally just want to walk right out without saying a word. I haven;t gone that fr yet though. But hey, next time maybe the next girl won't get treated that way. I took a break and I am trying to get back into it, but clearly, jaded. lol,
ReplyDeleteSometimes coffee and drink dates are good first dates. I have walked out of those in 15 minutes. I'm taking a break too
DeleteJust send him a polite "thanks for your interest but we wouldn't be a great fit" and then BLOCK him. If these guys and others from your past bother you, don't give them the chance to contact you.
ReplyDeleteHow do you think guys take it if a girl says something like "we wouldn't be a great fit romantically, but we can be friends?" We have some friends in common. I don't want it to be too awkward if we run into each other? I would really like it if he ghosted, no hard feelings, I promise
DeleteGod I hate the can we be friends. No, I have friends, and you're just trying to make it into something more. MOST of the time, not always.
DeleteDon't offer to be friends. Just say it's not going to work. Having been on the receiving end of a polite rejection like that, it's MUCH better than ghosting. Especially if you do have mutual friends.
DeleteI was hoping he'd ghost me LOL
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