Maybe

I met a guy at a party last week. He asked me out earlier today. Thinking I'll maybe go? Don't remember what he looks like.

Sorry, No

I went out on that date with that guy yesterday. He is not getting a name. He was nice and we share many hobbies (who doesn't enjoy reading and listening to music?)

He was boring, conversation was forced and work centric. His English wasn't very good. His education isn't very impressive. 

He wants to see me again. Sorry, no. 

Not Psyched

Have a date tomorrow, not excited. Probably wont even end up naming this guy.

Really Dude?

Really dude? The Brain just texted me wanting to do something tonight. Doesn't he ever learn? I really do have plans tonight, so....no. Even if I didn't have plans, still no. 

Boys

Three boys (yes, notice how I say "boys") contacted me over the weekend.  

1.  Smart Guy emailed me "Hi!" On OkC. I ignored

2.  The Brain tried to schedule a very last minute brunch. I replied 12 hours later saying, "Can't, busy." He responded with something like, "K, it was last min."  If he really wants to see me, he can schedule ahead if time. We've even talked about this before, so the fact that he is still doing this means he's not interested enough. Plus, I don't drop everything for guys

3.  Eharmony guy (not sure if he gets a name yet) blew up my phone (calls, texts, emails). I was busy and still haven't returned any of these.  I like that he is trying, but he is getting borderline annoying. It's like, I have a life; do you have patience?  It's the weekend, people are busy!

Great Example Of A SF D*ck I Was Just Talking About

Oh yes, got a great example of a SF d*ck I was just talking about the other day (in the comments).  A 5'6" guy on OkC contacted me.  I would bet $50 that in the real world, he is really 5'4" on a good day.  In his email, he said, "I just read your profile and questions and completely disagree with you on Downton Abbey being enjoyable.  Good luck in your search to find a guy."

Mind you, I only mentioned liking Downton Abbey as a tv show.  It is not a requirement of mine that a guy like the show too.

Instead of simply skipping over my profile, he sent that dbag email to me.  I can think of no other reason for him to do this other than him being a condescending pr*ck.

Very Serious

I am very serious when I talk about moving.  I just don't know where to go.

I've spent more than five years in San Francisco and I don't have anything to show for it in my personal life.  Dated and met a lot of guys, more guys that I wanted nothing to do with than guys I wanted to see again.  I've given SF a fair shot.

Until I get on a plane, I am still dating in SF and hoping I meet Mr. Right For Me.

This Happens To Girls?

Saw this blog/article, this happens to girls too?  Basically, a lady wrote to 67 OkC guys and 60 of them did NOT respond!  I knew guys had low response rates, but girls too???

I see nothing wrong with me not writing guys and being "proactive."

Same Pattern

It appears The Brain and Smart Guy share the same pattern on when they contact me. The Brain is not asking me out, but doing Facebook things. He is another reason I should move away. 

I Thought We Were Done With This

Smart Guy texted me this morning. I thought we were done with this already!  I've ignored every text he has sent to me in 2013 and some of 2012, so...

I don't understand why he continues to text me. 

Texas?

How are the guys in Texas? Anyone know? More Austin and Dallas than Houston. Ready for a change...

A Real Meeting?

Two guys have made it to the point where they can email me on eHarmony.  They both want to meet up, but instead of suggesting days/times, they keep asking me when I am free.  I would rather they suggest days/times and we go from there.  I am being meh, probably because I am not into either one of these guys.  Furthermore, what's with warning me that they want to call me?  Just call, they have my number now...  Yeah, really sounds like I'm just not interested.

eHarmony Is Not Enjoyable

Yes, hundreds of guys have contacted me on eHarmony.  I do not find eHarmony to be an enjoyable experience.  The first round of questions, easy.  The must haves/must not haves are stupid because 10 deal breakers seems like a lot.  Also, some of them overlap and are kind of repetitive.  The second round of questions, even more stupid.  I don't think I learn much from these answers since most people will try to paint themselves to be absolutely awesome.  Then, emails, it's never ending.

Happy 4th!

Happy 4th of July!  Let's see some fireworks tonight ;)  I will literally see fireworks, but not the fireworks with a guy kind of fireworks.

Entitled Little Boys

I seemed to have met way too many babied entitled little boys (okay, they are guys in their 30s-40s, but behave like little boys) in San Francisco.  I was recently on a flight and had the window seat.  The guy next to me kept opening the shade even though I kept shutting it.  Isn't it an unofficial rule that whoever sits next to the window manages the shade?  I believe it is and even saw it in the WSJ sometime within the past year.  I had to show the guy why I couldn't have it open, the sun was shining directly onto my lap, thereby increasing my core temperature by what felt like 10 degrees.  It also caused a horrible glare which caused me to see spots, but of course, entitled guy didn't realize this either.

I am sure he is used to getting his way.  How about being a gentleman and not a spoiled child?  How about, if you wanted the window seat, you should have booked the window seat?  How about, I clearly don't want the shade open and shouldn't need to detail why?