Friday, September 21, 2012

Wasting Time

I am not trying to waste my time or Smart Guy's time.  Really don't know what I think of him!  Was talking to some guy and girl friends.  The guys were saying, "If you say you aren't sure or don't know about a specific guy, it means you aren't interested."  They were also saying that at our age, we should be able to determine if someone is a good long term potential partner in fewer than six months.  Is this true??

If I didn't think Smart Guy was cute, I probably would have disappeared a while ago.  Maybe this says something?


  1. It's about you and what you want. Don't worry about his time, think only about yours. I disagree that you should be able to determine within 6 months if someone is a long-term potential partner. 6 months is a good chunk of time, but people's feelings evolve and their true intentions don't necessarily come out that quickly. It all depends on the relationship. I mean, people on reality shows like The Bachelor have found 'true love' in a matter of weeks (I hope you know I'm being sarcastic!)