Another Weekend

Another weekend has come and gone.

I went out to dinner with Arthur.  I keep trying to see him in a different light, but I don't think it is possible.  He is really nice, smart, well mannered, etc.  Unfortunately, there is 0 attraction (at least on my end).  Everything about that evening screamed "date."  He is really sweet; I wonder if there is anyone I can set him up with...

Felix is thisclose to me never answering his calls/emails/texts.  I will get really fed up and say "screw it;" I am not sure when...it's not something I can predict, you know?  I hope he isn't on an ego-high because he believes I am sitting by the phone waiting for him to call.  I know how players play and how nice guys behave, but I can't put my finger on what is going here.  He is not a player, but he's also not dating like a nice guy.  Felix tries to nudge the ball back into my court every time I lob it into his.  It's like he doesn't realize he is to make the next move?  Or maybe he does and doesn't know to go about it?  Why am I even trying to guess the reason?  All I have to say on this topic is, this chance I have extended can just as easily be rescinded.  I will not be here until the end of time waiting for him to make his move.

Dewey wants to hang out some time.

The Bragger wants to hang out.  He really doesn't know how to go about it.  Every I run into him (which is a lot), he mentions hanging out.

Guys, stop using the term "hang out" and learn how to say, "Let's go out.  How about dinner on (fill in the blank) night?"  This alone could explain why there is a huge population of early/mid/late 30s guys in San Francisco who have never been married (or close to it) in their lives.

Summer In SF

In terms of weather, it hasn't been a typical San Francisco summer.  I did see that temperatures are supposed to be up this coming weekend.  Well, I have already heard from Odie and Felix this week.  We'll see...

Warpath

I am on a warpath right now.  It wouldn't be any fun if I told you who needs to watch out.  Some of you can probably figure out who is in danger...LOL.  I am not exactly sure what I will do yet, but I am not pleased.

I need to add potential guys into the lineup ASAP.

Blah

Went out this weekend.  Blah.  Was supposed to meet up with Dewey, Young Guy, and Arthur.  Met up with 2 of the 3 which is pretty good.  Nothing eventful.  Standard guys at the bar who think they are the BEST thing ever.  Blah.  What I did notice is that some girls eat that sh*t up; these girls are usually around 22-24.  If you are a guy looking for a 22-24 year old, you know what to do...continue being the douchebag you really are.  LOL.

Weekend Plans

I will be seeing Dewey, Young Guy, and who knows who else this weekend.  This is all I know as of right now and it's still early.

Let's try to add some more potential guys this weekend...

SF Bull

SF is bullsh*t.  I don't think I have a better way to describe this place.  My patience is simply running out.  Where should I go?  New York?  Why didn't anyone warn me before I made the decision to move out here?  Don't get me wrong, I don't regret the time I have spent here.  However, I wouldn't have moved this much stuff if I knew this is how it was going to be.

SF is a beautiful place to live.  It's simply gorgeous with great weather.  Yes, the laid back atmosphere is great for work and life, but not dating.  Is this lack of assertive / desirable men issue enough to cause me to move?  Maybe.  A couple of years back, I thought to myself, I will not move out of San Francisco...ever.  Now, I am singing a different tune.

I spent quite a bit of time chatting with my good friend GoodFella today.  He is the typical aggressive NY man.  He sees something he likes, he goes after it.  He has no issue with women thinking he is crazy, a stalker, etc.  I like that.  Not only are the guys in San Francisco passive (because it is in the engineering culture, they are socially awkward, they fear rejection, or whatever the reason may be), but they also care too much about appearances.

• They want to "play it cool"
• They don't want you know know just how much they like you
• They don't want to seem weak
• They don't want you to know they are inexperienced in the dating department
• They don't want you to know you can destroy them
• And the list goes on

Well you know what?  If you aren't willing to make a fool of yourself, then you aren't deserving of a girl...any girl.  So guys, if you see something you like, go after it (you never know how long it will be around).  None of this lurking in shadows, pretending to be a friend, and running into someone unexpectedly nonsense.  You never know, maybe you'll make a fool of yourself or maybe you will end up with the girl of you dreams.  Stop being a bunch of f*cking p*ssies (I mean this as a motivational statement).

Weekend

It was a busy week/weekend.  I went to four parties.  At one party I had to talk to an assh*le I absolutely hate.  It sucks when I have to be nice to someone because we share many mutual friends.  This is often the case since San Francisco is so small and everyone seems to be connected in some way.  One guy I met a party months ago who I thought was a douche was much better this time around.  Maybe he really was nervous when I met him because he was overcompensating to the fullest.

Met up with Arthur, I think he is clear on the friend relationship we have going on.  It's great to have an intelligent guy friend to offer suggestions/thoughts/advice.  He is pretty funny, so hearing about his dating escapades is quite nice too.

Exchanged texts, saw Felix, and hung out with his friends.  Felix is always very happy to see me and hang out, but when it comes to initiating encounters, he is not very good.  Why is that?  I already went out with him once.  So, one would assume I would go out with him a second time right?  Hmm.  Weird.  It's actually getting on my nerves.  Either you are interested and want to go out or you don't.  Sounds simple enough to me.

Young Guy still wants to meet up.  It's amazing how persistent some guys can be.  It's always the guys I wouldn't date...ever.

MIA

I have been MIA.  Sorry.  Will have updates on Arthur, Felix, Young Guy, and your guess is as good as mine on who else.  I am thinking Sunday or Monday...

Labor Day Weekend

Young Guy wanted to hang out.  Arthur wanted to hang out.  Felix wanted to hang out.  Just hung out with 1 of the 3.  Will I see Felix again?  As far as I am concerned, it's his move.

Not Saying Much

Sorry guys, I am not saying much here besides I went on a date with Felix.

C*ckblock Strike

Is there such a thing as c*ckblock strike?  Meaning, c*ckblock before there is a need to?  For example, Felix has popped up again.  Is this because he knows and/or feels there are competitors out there trying to make a move?  Is that because there has been a lot going on in my Facebook profile?  Hmm...

Oh Characters

Arthur has popped up.  So has Felix.  Is Odie next?

I am over Odie.  Arthur = no, nice, but not my type.  So Felix...still trying to figure it out.

More to come in the next couple of days.

Walls Have Ears?

Do the walls have ears?  I was just talking about cleaning house...throwing things and people out.  Of course out of no where my phone starts ringing and my email is blowing up.  These people must have known they were on the cusp.  It's quite amazing how this always happens with me.  For example, I am never speaking to "insert name of guy" ever again.  Then he calls...or shows up...or whatever.

Cleaning House

I am cleaning house...literally right now.  However, I plan to stop conversing with those that I am not very fond of and those I find annoying.  I should clean out my Facebook friends list while I am at it.

Rather than moving, I am going to make my current space more hospitable.  That really means I have a lot of junk and should throw some stuff out.  If I end up moving, less junk = easier and cheaper to move.

Have you ever noticed less clutter usually makes people happier?  Clutter being junk, clothes, papers, old magazines, old mail, email, etc.  How about acquaintances you met a while back, but don't really ever want to become friends with?  What about the friends you tolerate for whatever reason, but you really dislike them?

Start cleaning!