Monday, June 23, 2014

Update On Trying Something New

Here is my update on trying something new (aka winking or emailing a guy who liked me in "Daily Matches" on match.com), fail.

The two guys I winked at sent me emails almost immediately.  I replied to their emails and they never wrote back.

The three guys I emailed first replied to my emails almost immediately.  Then, I replied to their emails and they never wrote back.

So, I still think for 80% of the guys out there, when they don't email a girl first and saw the girl's profile, that means they simply aren't interested enough.  And the ladies I know who snagged their men by emailing them first?  Well, those guys fall in the 20% or maybe they think "she'll do" because of age, family pressure, desire for children, and whatever other reasons they may have.

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  1. I don't think there's anything lost in messaging a guy first. Sure, I found the experience similar to you - if I wrote a guy first, he wrote back, and then I responded, and the chain died. But every now and then, it did lead to a date!

    One thing that helped me get more messages is doing a glamour photo session with some girlfriends. We got dolled up for a night out and then my friend with a really nice professional camera took photos of us. I have it mixed in with pics of me riding camels and hiking waterfalls, so he knows I'm not only into dressing up.

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    1. Glad we had similar experiences! Would consider reaching out to guys if I had the time. Between trying to figure out what I want to do, if I want to move, and going to networking events, I'm done

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