Alumni Networking

Went to an alumni networking thing last night.  Even the married guys (yes, the ones married to women) seemed gay.  Awesome.

The Appeal Of Younger Guys

The idea of going out with a younger guy is kinda appealing again.  No, don't have prospects, but there are a couple of reasons:

1. I look pretty young, would prefer the guy I end up not look like he could be my dad's age
2. Younger guys (some/many/not all) probably haven't had their hearts stomped all over in more than a few occasions = less cynical and bitter

I guess I have to define younger.  Hmm, late 20s?  By the time a guy is 36, he's probably had his heart ripped out at least once, and that's probably made him a somewhat jaded guy.

Young love is cute.  Look at Lucy Hale (she is super cute) and her guy.  Or, Selena and Justin.  Selena and Justin are often caught making out everywhere.  His new song, "Boyfriend" was written for her.  Have you heard those lyrics????  I want a guy who's that totally into me.

Justin Bieber + Forbes

I am a teeny bopper in many ways, but didn't know much about Justin Bieber until today.  Yup, did some research on him after I read the article in Forbes.  How could you not, this 18 year old guy is on the cover of the June issue.  So, not only is he a superstar singer, but he's also a start up investor?  He invested in Spotify, pretty good move.

So, instead of being one of those "singers" who uses recording studio tricks to make themselves sound better, he can actually sing and actually sings live in concerts (as opposed to the rampant lip syncers out there).  He also taught himself a bunch of instruments like piano, guitar, trumpet, etc.  I am not a 14 year old girl, but I'll admit it - he's pretty impressive.  Did some YouTube viewing and saw his very early (pre recording contract) stuff.  He's worked his ss off throughout the years.

JB's also dating Selena Gomez who's he's thought was "pretty" since 2009 (or before).  They didn't start dating until late 2010 or early 2011 (they were hiding it for a while, I think they got together late 2010).  He treats her like a princess (think being really nice, tweeting sweet messages, going on great trips, renting out the Staples Center to have dinner and watch a movie, etc).  I'm bringing this up because I still think it's true, guy after girl = guy treats girl well.  I have yet to hear this scenario being true, girl after guy = guy treats girl well.  There are rumors that Justin broke up with Selena via Twitter over the weekend.  Hope that's not true, they look cute together.

Is Spring Over?

We have had some great weather in the Bay Area, like two weeks of great weather.  Spring was here?  Spring doesn't seem to be here anymore.  It was 52 degrees when I woke up this morning and 54 degrees when I left work.

I've been thinking a lot about the weather.  What's more conducive to finding a boyfriend/girlfriend/long term relationship, warm weather or cold weather?

Hah

So, met up with a guy from match.  Glad my subscription is almost up.  What went wrong?  Well:

1. He talked about one if not two ex girfriends
2. He blatantly check out ladies that walked by
3. He asked me how match is going

Then he left it as I should call him.  Yeah, okay.  No.

Definiton of Insanity

I went to another match.com party because, why not.  Oh yeah, I remember why not.  A friend always  says the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again with expectations of different outcomes (or something like that). 

Surprisingly, the crowd at this one was even worse than the one months held in March.  I purposely avoided eye contact.  The party was also at a bar/lounge I do not like much, Roe.  Roe is right across the street from Gold Club (strip club) where I probably would have had more fun (been there once before).

Introversion in San Francisco

If you haven't figured it out yet, I am an introvert.  Yes, I attend many events, parties etc., but I would really much rather be in my apartment in sweats, not talking to strangers.  I've always been an introvert, but I try to balance it by meeting new people.  I would rather have a small group of close friends than know everyone and their mom.

I think San Francisco is full of introverts which is why people have difficulty meeting new people.  On a Friday/Saturday night more than 50% of my immediate neighbors are home and on their computers.  Not a Peeping Tom, but when people don't close their blinds at night...