Absurd

This nonsense with The Brain is absurd.  I wonder how many other people out there have YEARS of going back and forth with the same guy or girl.  Sure, I know I don't help matters with him because I am hot and cold.  However, this has gone on for years, and neither of us have found our "ones."

Is the universe trying to tell me something?  I successfully cut off all contact for at least a year, but circumstances keep bringing us face to face.  Why is this?

The Brain is 1000% better than Smart Guy though...

Hungover On Friday

Went out with some friends, The Brain was out too since they are mutual friends now (I met them through him).  Nevertheless, it's Friday and I am very hungover.

It was a fun and interesting night.  Essentially, The Brain half ass apologized about his behavior years ago when we dated.  He also said I should be more open and less closed off.  He has not officially asked for another shot (probably because he knows he could get shot down).  If he wants another chance, he better come out and say it, you snooze you lose!

Whoa, Really?

Whoa, really?  Yes, really.  Smart Guy contacted me again!  Remember, I have not responded to any of his attempts in many months.  Still not responding!  I am not doing this to be mean.  It would be mean if I responded because I have nothing nice to say.  I'm so annoyed by him, that I wouldn't even be able to say "We are very done, please leave me alone" politely.

Size Matters

Is "Size matters" really that surprising?

Patti Stanger Interview

So, this Patti Stanger (Millionaire Matchmaker) interview is from 2009, but still applicable today.

I totally agree with her, manners matter!  Also, if a guy only contacts you to do things last minute, he's just not that into you.  She also agrees, that guys should respect time and not ask for short notice dates.

This Past Saturday

Almost forgot about this!  Went out this past Saturday night with some friends (guys and girls).  Of course, the guys stood around talking about sports while the girls were on the dance floor.  I can be a little mean at times, usually due to a guy is touchy and grabby guy. 

This guy on the dance floor kept coming super close to me, even though I kept moving away.  Then he tried to touch my arm and I glared at him.  Then he was behind me trying to dance up on me.  Then he wanted to shake my hand, I refused.

Guy:  You won't even shake my hand?
Me:  NO!
Guy:  That's really rude
Me:  Really rude is trying to dance up on me, grab my arm, and shake my hand when I have made it ridiculously clear that I want nothing to do with you
Guy:  So, do you have a boyfriend?
Me:  Yes (I lied and pointed to our crew of guys)
Guy:  Which one?
Me:  Leave me alone, you're really f*cking annoying
He was then dragged away by his friend

It Might Be Time

Thinking it might be time to start dating again.  Mentioned this to a couple of friends to see who they know.  A couple of them think they might know people and will give it some thought.

Spring is in the air...

Busy Week

It's been a busy week.  Watched the March Madness Championship game and went to two events.  The events were filled with well educated guys.  Unfortunately, many of them were young...think 22-28.  One 28 year old with an obvious Asian fetish did not want to stop conversing with me.  The dead giveaway to an Asian fetish?  1) Speaking an Asian language and/or 2) spending a significant amount of time living in an Asian country.

Poor Form

I think it's poor form when a guy doesn't contact a girl after they "hang out."  Was talking to some guys and gals about this.  The general consensus - guy should contact the girl, even if they met outside a bar at 2am and it was a one nighter.

What possesses a guy to think it's okay not to contact her?  If anything, wouldn't a guy want to because he could hope to set up a steady 2 am "friend?"  (I am not talking about me.) 

Yeah yeah, I understand guys can be scared of rejection, etc., but come on.  Yeah, the girl could reach out to the guy, but really, man up!

Championship Game

Yes, going to watch the championship game tonight!

Final Four

Wasn't planning on watching the Final Four game because it's going to be really crowded, especially at the typical spots (Blue Light, Green's, Brickyard, etc).

Changed my mind, going to see what kind of guys are out with my friend Sabrina.  We also care about the game...

No Kidding!

I heard from Smart Guy, no kidding!  I haven't seen/spoken to him since 2012 Q4.  I do not plan on responding.

Most guys usually make contact (after getting kicked to the curb) within a three month window, so that means, he missed it by a couple of days.

Yes I Have

Yes I have spoken to The Brain.  Unfortunately, I was the one who reached out to him (we have a mutual friend that needed assistance).  He responded (I was sorta surprised, well, not really...he'll always respond to me).  Instead of just answering the question about our friend, he tried to prolong the conversation.  He was even testing the waters by suggesting a meal.