Okay, I am going to take this a step further. I will continue my two date rule, but I will ONLY date guys that I find attractive. Yes, brains are hot, personality is hot, sense of humor is hot, etc. However, I have dated all these guys and I didn't find them hot...at all. It doesn't matter how funny he is or how he can build complex financial models. At the end of the day, if I am not attracted to him, it is doomed.
This is what I am calling going back to basics. I think back to college and how I didn't care what he was studying, what he wanted to be when he grew up, etc. The only thing that mattered: do I think he is hot?
I know this could be difficult, but it shouldn't. I just need to stop knowing what school he went to, where he works, how big his house is, etc.
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