Maybe I am simply not ready. I know a pretty decent guy. I have known him for more than ten years and he happens to live in San Francisco. By decent, I mean ridiculously cute (I have always thought so). We are supposed to meet up. We have been talking about meeting up for months if not years. I haven't reached out to him. It's not because I don't think he is serious potential, as much as, I just don't feel like going down that path right now.
Okay, I have been proven wrong again. I used to think I would be totally ready to dive in if I met the right guy, but now I don't think that's true. I am not saying this guy (I'll name him Dreamy Guy because I thought he was so dreamy when I first met him) is the guy, but he really does have potential.
Its my personal belief that if this was the right guy, he'd be pursuing you. Not that you shouldn't ever pursue a guy - that's not what I mean - just that if he were at all interested, he'd already be knocking on your door. Don't drive yourself crazy with the "what ifs".
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Jennifer
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