It has been brought to my attention that guys take a very passive way of asking girls out because they fear rejection. I see. I knew this, thanks. You know what? No guts, no glory.
I got a message from a guy I met at a party a couple of weeks ago. From my perspective, the email had no message. It was a reminder that he exists. Okay, what am I supposed to do with this? I know what he wants me to do (write back and tell him I want to hang out with him or ask him to ask me out). Am I going to do that? No.
- I have no interest in dating him
- If he demonstrated some kind of value, I might consider dating him (this is very slim), but at least he would have more of a chance than he does now
It's obvious that he is interested. Just like how it is obvious that all the other passive guys I meet are interested. Does this passive route work for any of these guys? It must if they keep using it right? I am sure passive does work on some girls...the girls guys are generally not interested in until they've had a 6 pack of beer. It doesn't work here...move along please.
You should write your own VH1 show. Kinda like the PUA only from a female point of view.
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