Just Not That Into You

Saw this article today and agree.  If someone ghosts, who cares why.  If they aren't making time to actually see you in person, who cares why and they just aren't that into you.  Why waste time and think about someone who isn't that into you?  Move on, meet someone who makes it very clear they are into you.

I Wish There Was A Spark

I told him I can't get out of town this weekend.  He offered alternative weekends.  I wish there was a spark because he seems like a nice guy.  Do I give him a second chance to see if a spark develops?  Or do I tell him I'm only interested in him as a friend?

A Second Date Years Later

This seems to always happen.  I broke up with that guy and a guy I had dinner with years ago reached out to me.  I went out with him again (a second date years later) last night.  I can't see him as anything more than "just a friend."  I have zero attraction towards him.  He really wants to take me on a day trip to Napa or anywhere over the weekend.  I do not want to go.  I can either tell him, I'm not interested or tell him I'm busy (so I can give it some more time before I completely rule him out).  I hear a lot of women say, "I wasn't into him at all when we first met."  I don't think I'm one of those though.