Monday, February 2, 2015

Don't Listen To This Guy!

Don't listen to this guy!  He wrote a book on how women can get the guy they want.  His "advice" includes:
  1. Sleep with him on the first date
  2. Pay for dates
  3. Call him
Hogwash!  I used to be friends with a woman who would do these things.  What did she get?  A lot of guys treating her like sh*t.

This is the perfect recipe for marrying a man who will undoubtedly do at least one of the following:  cheat on you, treat you like sh*t, and divorce you if you are lucky.
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8 comments:

  1. AnonymousFebruary 2, 2015 at 5:19 PM

    this advice would work for alpha women who want to be the man in the relationship.

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    1. Adventuresaurus GirlFebruary 2, 2015 at 6:29 PM

      I think short term yes, long term no. I know a woman doctor, very successful. Her guy is a "poor teacher" and at first it was fine. Now, four years later, he has a plethora of snide comments, like "Well, I only got you this because I can't afford anything else, you pick where we go on vacation because you are the one paying for us, it doesn't matter what I think because it's not my money" et al

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    2. Adventuresaurus GirlFebruary 2, 2015 at 6:32 PM

      Also, she did not sleep with him on the first date. She did pay for stuff and call him a lot

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    3. AnonymousFebruary 3, 2015 at 11:18 AM

      This is another Anon. I think you're super generalizing hear. That guy behaves like that not because he's a "poor teacher" and because she called him a lot. He's just an insecure jerk. He shouldn't have married a woman who makes more than him if he cannot handle it. I'm married 11 years to a "poor teacher" and make more than him because I have a corporate job. However, he's 100% team player, is proud of my successes and loves his job and proud of it. Also, doesn't consider him-self poor at all :)

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    4. Adventuresaurus GirlFebruary 3, 2015 at 3:07 PM

      Thank for the comment. When you were dating, did you pay for everything, call him, generally chase after him? Wild guess, no?

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    5. AnonymousFebruary 4, 2015 at 9:48 AM

      When we were dating, we were both just starting out - he was a student, I was working a retail job....We were taking turns paying for the movies. He was mostly the one to call :)

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    6. Adventuresaurus GirlFebruary 4, 2015 at 9:53 AM

      I think letting the guy chase, call, text, ask for dates, et a makes a big difference

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  2. AnonymousFebruary 3, 2015 at 12:26 AM

    Guess San Francisco liberalism doesn't extend well to traditional gender roles..

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