Monday, November 20, 2017

Thanksgiving

Thanksgiving is this Thursday and I'm sure we all have things we should be grateful for; we just need to realize what.

So, even if nothing comes of it, I'm grateful for the guy I run into coming into my life.  I thought I was very over Ex Guy, but he was still able to annoy me by contacting me.  Although my annoyance was at a very low level, it was still present.  I think that's a sure sign that I wasn't as over Ex Guy as I thought I was.

After a variety of things like a long vacation and meeting two guys I have chemistry with (including the guy I ran into), I can honestly say I'm 100% over the Ex Guy. Going on a few dates with this one showed me just how over the Ex Guy I am.  The Ex Guy could show up on my doorstep, and I'd just close the door without any positive or negative feeling.  He's been made completely irrelevant.  And, that took way too long.  Had I met some guys I found interesting sooner, I think I would have been 100% done with the Ex Guy sooner.

I've heard that people come into your life at a specific time, for a specific reason.  I believe it.

28 comments:

  1. Your blog has become really boring, boring AF

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  2. How old are you now anyways?
    Your 'About me' section says 'I am a single straight girl in my 30s', how long ago was that?

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    1. Since there are many Anons commenting, I don't know who you are. If you're the same one as before, why should I tell you anything? You've been nothing, but rude

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  3. Why would it matter who I am?
    I was not trying to be rude at all, maybe the other 'Anons' commenting were, wouldn´t know.
    I was just wondering if that was recent information or outdated information.
    If you are asking yourself why would I want to know, is because I don´t think women on their 30´s are looking for the same as in their 40´s.

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    1. Still 30s. I'm not sure that age is the best way because I know women in their 50s who want what women in their 20s typically want, 40s and 40s, et al

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  4. Different Anonymous here from the first two, been reading for years. Your tone has always been a little arrogant but I used to find it entertaining. Now it's just aggravating and oozes with entitlement. It's ok to admit you are flawed too, rather than always blaming the men.

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    1. You must be a man. If you were a woman in SF, you'd know exactly what I'm talking about. Don't believe me? Take a poll in SF

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    2. Um no, I'm a woman who has lived in SF for nearly a decade. I have done the online dating and app dating. Yes there are some strange men out there, but there are also some really genuine men who make great partners. They just don't have the slick "moves" you see in rom-coms.

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    3. How has dating been for you? Have you met more genuine men over the strange ones? Great if you have, I have not

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    4. Yes, had matched with a guy on Tinder in the early days of Tinder, and we'd chatted back and forth. Then my app crashed and I reinstalled, losing all the conversations. I figured, oh well. Then this same guy and I recognized each other at a photography class. One thing led to another, and we are getting married in Feb!

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    5. I wonder if you're looking in the wrong places. I'm not sure why you think anyone who dislikes your blog/attitude would be a man. You and I have had spats here before for the very same reason - I sometimes find you arrogant and overly picky. I'm also a woman who has lived in SF for 6+ years (from the East Coast). Though I did have some issues with online dating - fuck that shit - I found a great partner through my friend group and doing what I love. It sounds like you have a couple of prospects outside of dating apps (yay) who have helped you get over your ex, so I'm happy about that. I'll be honest and say I came back here after almost a year, hoping to find you were in a relationship. :/

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    6. Hi TJ, I'm sure you're right and I'm without a doubt looking in the wrong places. Glad you found what you were looking for! I tend to put dating and relationships on the back burner

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  5. Also FYI i have lots of single friends, men and women. I hear the stories on both ends. My male bestie got stood up on Valentine's day. He sent her flowers - they'd been on about 6 dates and agreed to be exclusive - and she just didn't show up on the date. At 2am she sent a text saying "sorry." Romantic relationships can bring out the best in people but also the worst. Regardless of gender.

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  6. You should be a part of a contest for one of the best sites online.
    I am going to highly recommend this website!

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  7. Well you are still replying to shitty comments, you are still single, you are getting older and will be forever alone so...

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    1. LMAO. Again, you are still reading, so what does that say about you? Just because I choose to be single doesn't mean I don't have suitors (perhaps unlike yourself). Clearly you are miserable because happy people don't write nasty anonymous comments to people they don't know on the internet

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    2. Here you are...again! LMAO. It also sounds like you're panties are in a bunch. I suspect you are one of the single men who can't get a date. Sure, I suck, I'm a terrible person, I'm ugly, and whatever else you want to launch my way. I give 0 f*cks on what you think. You however know that I've hit a nerve, happy people don't post negative things on the internet

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  8. You keep answering, LMAO!
    Another day to troll your stupid little blog.
    And since you are talking about happy people, happy people do not have a blog complaining of how alone they are, how they don´t have any friends and the other shit you complain about.
    FYI I know who you are, and I'm coming after you, is the people who knows you aware of this blog? don´t think so...

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    1. Yes, I am replying because this is my blog, I don't censor comments, and you are trolling. I understand you are trying to make yourself feel better by trolling. How about instead attacking someone you've never met, you think about what I've said that's made you so angry. Why is it that what I've said can bring out this level of hatred? I know I've hit a nerve, and quite frankly, I don't care what it is, but perhaps it's something you'd like to delve into before you get an embolism.

      And, not once have I complained about being alone, not having friends, et al. That must be another blog you're trolling. Get a life already. I might start ignoring you, what will you do with yourself then? I'd recommend an actual hobby

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  9. Hi Adventuresaurus Girl,

    No posts in a while.
    Please don´t let the haters get to you, they should get a life.
    Wishing you a happy new year!

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  10. Hi,

    Have you stopped blogging?

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