Thursday, March 29, 2012

Singles Party?

I was curious and went to a sponsored party a couple of weeks back.  There were cameras everywhere.  I would hate to end up in one of their commercials (it might actually happen). 

So, nope, no one interesting.  Talked to one guy for a while.  He was interesting, but there was no all.  He got my number, I felt like that was the polite thing to do.  Glad he hasn't used it and hope he won't.

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

No, I Don't Feel Bad

I enjoy throwing things out.  These "things" include people (friends, exes, exes trying to be friends, etc).  No, I don't feel bad throwing people out of my life because it makes life easier/less stressful.  Come on, I am sure you have that friend that doesn't stop b*tching, the one that is seriously depressed, the pessimist, etc.  Wouldn't your lives be better without them?  Only one way to find out.

Friday, March 23, 2012

San Francisco 49er

I have lived in San Francisco for years.  Just heard this term 49er to describe women.  Some guys in SF think the women are 4s, but act like 9s.  Guess what guys?  Same to you.  Those who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.

Tuesday, March 20, 2012


I read in the March Glamour issue that one out of eight Boston dwelling men expect sex on the first date.  That made Boston the highest city for this.  One out of eight doesn't sound that high.  I feel like I have seen way worse in San Francisco.  Maybe that's because I know too many douchebags. Or maybe it's because a lot of the guys I know don't even know how to date.

Sunday, March 18, 2012


Judgement/judgmental/judging are all words that piss me off.  I think there is mass confusion out there on what it means to be judgmental vs selective.  For example:
  1. Deciding someone is a "bad" person because they spent time in the pokey
  2. Not wanting to date someone because they served time and not assuming the guy/girl is a "bad" person
See the difference?  I don't label people "bad" based on how they spend their time, their occupation, etc.  However, that also doesn't mean I shouldn't be able to use these as criteria when selecting a guy.  It's as simple as, I am not making any assumptions related to their character.  I am just selecting guys based on things that I know are important to me.

In case this still isn't sitting well with you.  Another example, this one is for the guys:
  1. Girls that wear short skirts are slutty
  2. I don't want to date girls who wear short skirts
Number one assumes something about a girl's character based on her skirt length.  Number two simply states a man's preference in dating women that wear longer skirts or pants.  Number two does not assume anything about women that wear short skirts.

Some of the most ridiculous items directed at me:
  • Sleeping in is stupid and a waste of time (f*ck you, I love sleeping in and I am not telling you how to live your life)
  • You/that is disgusting.  I can't believe you are eating that (f*ck you, if I wanted your opinion/judgement, I would ask you)
  • How could you...?  (that question is just loaded with judgement)

Thursday, March 15, 2012

Johhny Depp

So sad that Johnny Depp and his girl Vanessa Paradis seem to be on the outs.  I follow some celebrity gossip, but this bit of "news" stood out for two reasons:
  1. They've been together for 14 years
  2. Johnny Depp is 48 or so, but still looks 35
How does Johnny Depp preserve himself so well?  Excellent work.

Monday, March 12, 2012

Kate Middleton And Prince William

I want what Kate Middleton and Prince William have.  Those two seem very genuinely in love with each other.  They have been together for over 10 years and are still into each other!  Many marriages don't even last that long.  Look at Katy Perry and Russell Brand.  Or, how about Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries?  That was doomed and it was soooooo obvious.

So what is it that keeps Kate and William together?  Is it the fact that they basically grew up together?  Is it their many shared interests?  Is it the fact that Kate is totally poised?  Maybe because they were dating all through college and their young adult lives?

Wednesday, March 7, 2012

Large Frame

After examining San Francisco men/guys/man children, I think I know why I haven't seen many I am attracted to; it's because of the lack of large frames.  I want guys that have broad shoulders, height, big bones, etc.  Unfortunately, a majority of the guys I have met in SF do not fall into that category.  Maybe I should move.  Yup, this again.

Monday, March 5, 2012

Get Off The Pill

Over the past year or so, I have seen many articles talking about birth control and how it makes women react to met differently when they are on versus off it.  Basically single girls (hopefully you aren't already married before you try this), to figure out if you are really into the guy you are dating, get off hormonal birth control (pill, ring, etc).  According to these studies, many women find themselves NOT sexually attracted to their partners after they discontinue hormonal birth control usage.

Thursday, March 1, 2012

Dating Is Huge

Finally read all my emails.  Dating is huge.  Everyone is looking for someone and all this is apparently blowing up all over the internet.  Had a bunch of folks contact me about guest blogging, advertising on my blog, trying out their products, wanting to meet in person, etc.  Meeting in person probably isn't a good idea since I don't want people to actually know who I am.