Thursday, June 28, 2012


Next!  I wouldn't say I am angry as much as I am annoyed.  Women in SF have done something very wrong.  Have they all behaved like a bunch of sluts?

I heard from that Monday guy - not surprised.  It was a pretty douchey text - also not surprised.  Something about me being frigid.  For f*cking real?  I've known the guy for all of 45 minutes.  I wrote back something along the lines of "Good luck, harder to get into than Fort Knox."

Seriously, ladies of San Francisco, are you letting every guy you meet jump into your bed as soon as you meet him?  At that point, you probably don't know his last name (maybe not even his first name), if he has ever been to prison, his gambling habits, if he bathes regularly, and other things beneficial tidbits.

Wednesday, June 27, 2012

What To Do?

If I hear from that guy I met up with on Monday, what do I do?  He reminds me of Valley Guy -- not a good thing.  He seemed better than Valley Guy because he was more interesting and less arrogant.  He didn't sweep me off my feet though.  Should I follow my two date rule and agree to see him again?

I probably won't hear from him.  I wasn't very nice towards the end of the meeting (I was probably bitchy).  Things happen for a reason.

Monday, June 25, 2012

This Again?

Met up with a guy during the day.  We had been emailing for a while.  He was all up in my personal space.  This again?  What's with guys in their late 30s that try to get inappropriately friendly without following dating protocol??

Monday, June 18, 2012

Yeah Introvert

Just finished reading Quiet by Susan Cain.  It was pretty interesting and yeah, I am definitely an introvert.  It makes me think that I really cannot end up with someone very heavy on the extrovert side.  He would want to go out all the time, I wouldn't.  This would probably get ugly.

So where do introverts meet if they don't really like to go out?  I have no idea.

Thursday, June 14, 2012

That's Way Too Old

Yeah yeah, age is just a number.  Is that what you would think if someone 20+ years older than you asked you for your number?

This happened a couple of weeks ago at a networking event.  I was not very pleasant to him (shocker).  I wasn't in the mood to be at the event, but had already told the organizer (my friend) that I would be there.  I was there, just not talking to anyone.  He came up to me and actually commented on my antisocial behavior and how he wanted to know more about me.  Really?  I knew he was older, but 22 years older is a bit at least a decade too much.

Monday, June 11, 2012

Pay Attention And Smile

I need to pay better attention to stuff.  I was walking down the street a couple of weeks ago by the Clift Hotel.  A guy in a Range Rover was staring at me and smiled.  I looked at him confused.  Did I know him?  Looking back, the answer is, "No, idiot.  He was trying to hit on me."

The worst part?  Not only did I not smile, but I gave him a totally bewildered look.  I need to improve my reaction to random guys smiling at me.

Thursday, June 7, 2012

I've Been Thinking About Weather

So, I've been thinking about weather.

Warm weather = people want to go outside and enjoy the weather, people tend to drop whomever they are dating and play the field, and people get married (think about all the spring and summer weddings you have been to), people go out more (anywhere - parks, bars, malls, movies, whatever)

Cold weather = people want to stay indoors, people wouldn't mind having a warm body nearby, people couple up, people don't meet new people because they are very busy in their apartments trying to stay warm.

Of course these are glittering generalizations.  However, doesn't this very short list of observations imply that San Francisco should be good for dating because it's usually pretty freaking cold?

I am going to go back to my introvert idea.  Dating in SF would be better if there weren't as many introverts.  That still doesn't make me want to go out more often...

Sunday, June 3, 2012

More Weather

As we already know, weather is super important.

People look way better when it's warm out.  I look way better when it is warm out.  My main objective is to be warm when it is cold.  That might include an ugly fleece coat, oversized ski jacket, etc.

Great, now I've got to think back to other points in my life when I did get paired up with guys I liked at the time.  Yeah, I can expend some energy on this, but it doesn't fix the fact that I have not met many guys that are my type here in SF.