Monday, January 6, 2014

Riled Up

I've been getting riled up.  There is this guy who wants to go out with me and I just want to smack him upside the head.  He asked me out on Thursday for Thursday night (NO), Friday night (when I said NO to Thursday), Saturday afternoon (when I said NO to Friday), and Sunday anytime (when I said NO to Saturday).  Then, he was offended and asked me when I was free.  I told him, the following Thursday (I have a lot on my plate).  I know I shouldn't be offended, he's probably used to girls rearranging their schedules for him.  I am not one of them and am a bit insulted, come on, we've never met before and Thursday for Thursday?!?!  Are you kidding?

Annoyed, not sure I even want to bother meeting up with him.  He works in tech, he didn't tell me what he does, but I suspect he's a computer engineer.

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  1. Ugh, you know how much I hate that too! I had a guy CALL me (someone I've never met) at 7pm on Sat night to ask me if I was free and if not, the next day?

    Rather than do the back and forth, I just tell him when I AM free. Some guys make snarky comments like "you're a busy girl" but I just respond with a smiley face.

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    1. I don't get these guys. Don't they have common sense? Are you going to meet up with the 7pm Sat night guy? Lol, is he a computer engineer?

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  2. That doesn't bother me! Sometimes it's fun to be spontaneous! What does bother me is when they ask you in the middle of the night to come meet them! What are they freakin crazy? Do girls actually do this?

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    1. Guys who ask you to meet them in the middle of the night are only interested in sex. That's my experience. I have even agreed to meet a guy late at night who said he wasn't interested in sex and when I got there, he was totally singing a different tune.

      I don't like super last minute stuff, but spontaneity really is fun sometimes. Those days/nights make the best memories. :-)

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    2. Guys that have asked me to meet them last minute never really seemed that into me.

      When I was younger, I remember meeting up very late night with a guy. He wasn't trying to have sex with me, he just wanted to make sure I was in his bed and not in some other guy's bed. Major control/jealousy issues

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