I don't check Tinder very often. I tried to be better at it, didn't work. One of my matches said, "Hi!" Two weeks later he said, "It's f*cking rude to ignore me," but he didn't unmatch me (which I thought was unusual because he could have done just that instead of being an *sshole). Also, he could totally see that I haven't logged in for two weeks if he wanted to check. Nevertheless, I unmatched him.
I think people could be a bit nicer (or just not nasty) when interacting with others (not just in the dating arena, this is in general). If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing, and move on. I'd love to tell every *sshole I encounter exactly what I think of them, but I don't. It's called being an adult.
Check out the instagram account Tinder Nightmares and also Bye Felipe. It contains a lot of that. That sort of rudeness is not uncommon on TInder (and other sites) - people's egos get bruised easily. But makes for hilarious reading on IG.
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