I've been talking to a new guy online (OkC). I am going to proceed with caution. He is a repeat emailer (he emails me several times before I even have the chance to read the first one). Now, he's sending me "wish you were here texts" during the day and sappy goodnight texts. We haven't even met in person yet. He asked me out on a last minute date during the week and I had plans (not that I would have agreed if I hadn't already had plans). He's also a repeat texter (he texts me several times before I even have the chance to read the first one).
This screams, "Proceed with caution!" He could be one of those obsessive types I won't be able to shake. (Isn't that every guy?)
That is definitely not every guy. You may attract spineless clingers with your indifferent attitude, but you'll find that showing some warmth and kindness weeds out the needy ones or jerks and opens you up to way better men.
ReplyDeleteYes, I do attract spineless clingers. I'm not convinced that being sooooo into a guy when I barely know him would open me up to way better men
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