I know this woman, well, I know many women like this...they can't be without some kind of booty call, boyfriend, whatever in their lives. For many of these women I know, this stems from insecurity, they don't feel like they are anything special without a man. Or maybe they feel fat, ugly, unwanted, whatever. If you are one of these women, try snap out of it any way you can.
Why am I even talking about this? I have a neighbor, we've been neighbors for many years. When I see her, we always chat about the men she cycles through. And, she always says, "I'm done with him, I haven't been single since I was 14, and I want time to myself." She's in her late 30s now and has never stuck to this. This morning I saw her with a guy from a few months ago. The same guy she used to have screaming matches with and who she also literally cried herself to sleep over for months; the walls are thin.
I have a friend who is the same way. She's about to turn 30 and is very rarely single. But she likes to be in relationships of some sort all of the time, even when she knows deep down the guys aren't good for her. She recently got broken up with and is super upset about it and misses him, even though every time we got together she told me she should break up with him for a multitude of reasons. She says she likes having guys around due to her high sex drive. I don't know what the real reason is, if it's something like what you said, but I am having a really hard time trying to convince her that she needs to be happy on her own and stop jumping into these doomed relationships.
ReplyDeleteI wonder how we can help these women... High sex drive? Get a vibrator, LOL
DeleteSometimes you know deep down that ridiculously good looking or interesting person is not marriage material... but why not - much more fun.
ReplyDeleteLOL! Fun if you know there won't be tears
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