I wouldn't say Smart Guy has blown up my phone, but he is certainly texting. I'll admit it, I finally replied and went out with him. I like persistence; he sent at least 10 texts before I replied to one of them.
He was actually really nice and brought game (showed effort). Maybe taking me for granted and learning I won't always be there changed his behavior? Does that really help him though? I've already seen what he is really like. I don't think this (guy that tries) is his natural state. I also don't think it's possible to change a d*ck to being a non d*ck. Am I wrong? Seriously, let me know...
Going out with him again will depend on how he goes about it. "Hey there" texts will be ignored. Maybe he has learned this, we'll see.
I do think that men change (to a small degree) for the right woman. But, it sounds like he's shown his true colors already with the insecurity and condescending attitude, and that's not going to go away even when he "locks you down." My unsolicited advice is to proceed with caution, it sounds like you are out of his league! Plus, it's no fun to play games.
ReplyDeleteThanks Sabrina! His true colors are quite hideous...I must remember this.
Delete