Girl Players

Came across this blurb, it seems like I could be a player?  This wouldn't be the first time I am called a "player."  I really do want to find a great guy though!!!

Blurb's main points:

1. She doesn't give a sh*t what anyone thinks (yes)
2. She becomes a good friend first (that's the goal)
3. She knows when to walk away and when to run (just because I know, doesn't mean I always do it)
4. She remains private and mysterious (well, yes)
5. She's not going to sleep with just anybody (of course not)

This doesn't seem like "player" to me.  I call this knowing one's worth and being selective.