I am not trying to waste my time or Smart Guy's time. Really don't know what I think of him! Was talking to some guy and girl friends. The guys were saying, "If you say you aren't sure or don't know about a specific guy, it means you aren't interested." They were also saying that at our age, we should be able to determine if someone is a good long term potential partner in fewer than six months. Is this true??
If I didn't think Smart Guy was cute, I probably would have disappeared a while ago. Maybe this says something?
It's about you and what you want. Don't worry about his time, think only about yours. I disagree that you should be able to determine within 6 months if someone is a long-term potential partner. 6 months is a good chunk of time, but people's feelings evolve and their true intentions don't necessarily come out that quickly. It all depends on the relationship. I mean, people on reality shows like The Bachelor have found 'true love' in a matter of weeks (I hope you know I'm being sarcastic!)
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