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Saturday, July 26, 2014
Dinner Tonight
Dinner tonight with a guy in his mid 40s. He was very direct in his emails, none of this "How are you?" repeated over the course of five text messages. No, instead it was, "Would you like to go to dinner?" I think directness is very attractive.
I recently went out with a divorced guy. I had never gone out with one before. He was very direct and honest with his feelings. He told me on the 2nd date that he didn't like to serial date and he wanted to date me. I had never gone out with a guy like this before and I think it has to do with maturity you build with being married. How did the date go?
I liked him, but he was also not for me. It was my first experience dating a divorced guy, and I'm not ready for that yet. It's like they have had a whole different life before...baggage I suppose.
I hear you! Think I'd have to decide on a case by case basis. Think I'd be okay if he was married in his early 20s for a couple of years with not children. Couldn't be a stepmom to young children
I wish men in their 30s realized that at some point, they are going to cease being attractive to women in their early 30s/late 20s, so they should stop dicking around and take advantage of the dating pool now!
Is he divorced? I
ReplyDeleteYeah, how did you know? Because he is direct?
DeleteI recently went out with a divorced guy. I had never gone out with one before. He was very direct and honest with his feelings. He told me on the 2nd date that he didn't like to serial date and he wanted to date me. I had never gone out with a guy like this before and I think it has to do with maturity you build with being married. How did the date go?
DeleteNice, do you like him?
DeleteWill write more later this week...he's not for me
I liked him, but he was also not for me. It was my first experience dating a divorced guy, and I'm not ready for that yet. It's like they have had a whole different life before...baggage I suppose.
DeleteI hear you! Think I'd have to decide on a case by case basis. Think I'd be okay if he was married in his early 20s for a couple of years with not children. Couldn't be a stepmom to young children
Deletewhen you get older... you start to feel mortal. No need to waste time on fluff.
ReplyDeleteI wish men in their 30s realized that at some point, they are going to cease being attractive to women in their early 30s/late 20s, so they should stop dicking around and take advantage of the dating pool now!
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DeleteIf those guys in their 30s make it big, think they'll be able to get whoever they want (example, Anna Nicole Smith)
DeleteNo, I haven't, thank you so much for sharing! This is really interesting
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