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Friday, July 12, 2013
I Thought We Were Done With This
Smart Guy texted me this morning. I thought we were done with this already! I've ignored every text he has sent to me in 2013 and some of 2012, so...
You are a challenge since you are not responding. However, if he is not asking you on a date, he is not into you. Continue ignoring him. He sounds like a loser.
Have you asked him not to contact you? If you have then this is starting to become harassment and you should tell him so. Silence isn't a good way to tell someone you're not interested.
No, have not asked him to stop, figured he would have realized I'm not interested since the last time I replied was late 2012. Scared that if I do reply, he'll blow up my phone which will be really annoying. He did leave me alone for a solid three months earlier this year.
Honestly, just tell him to leave you alone. Some people don't take being ignored well and they tend to get stubborn about it. People use this trick far too often these days because frankly they can get away with it. But ya get what ya give. :)
Agree with Anonymous #3, tell him to please leave you alone. Boys will keep contacting you if you allow them. If you tell him to stop and he persists, he's now a stalker.
Because he has nothing else going on. He is bored with his life and is texting you out if amusement
ReplyDeleteIt's amusing for him even though I never reply?
DeleteYou are a challenge since you are not responding. However, if he is not asking you on a date, he is not into you. Continue ignoring him. He sounds like a loser.
ReplyDeleteYou are right! He's not asking me out and if he did, I'd still ignore him because he is the worst guy I've ever gone out with
DeleteHave you asked him not to contact you? If you have then this is starting to become harassment and you should tell him so. Silence isn't a good way to tell someone you're not interested.
ReplyDeleteNo, have not asked him to stop, figured he would have realized I'm not interested since the last time I replied was late 2012. Scared that if I do reply, he'll blow up my phone which will be really annoying. He did leave me alone for a solid three months earlier this year.
DeleteHonestly, just tell him to leave you alone. Some people don't take being ignored well and they tend to get stubborn about it. People use this trick far too often these days because frankly they can get away with it. But ya get what ya give. :)
ReplyDeleteYou're right, next time he texts, I'll reply and hope he doesn't blow up my phone. Or, I could call my phone company and have them block the number!!
DeleteAgree with Anonymous #3, tell him to please leave you alone. Boys will keep contacting you if you allow them. If you tell him to stop and he persists, he's now a stalker.
ReplyDeleteSo crazy since I haven't replied in more than six months
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