I want what Kate Middleton and Prince William have. Those two seem very genuinely in love with each other. They have been together for over 10 years and are still into each other! Many marriages don't even last that long. Look at Katy Perry and Russell Brand. Or, how about Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries? That was doomed and it was soooooo obvious.
So what is it that keeps Kate and William together? Is it the fact that they basically grew up together? Is it their many shared interests? Is it the fact that Kate is totally poised? Maybe because they were dating all through college and their young adult lives?
I don't know what Kate's and William's private lives are like and I feel no need to, but if I were to hazard a guess as to the key to why some people such as those two are just so happy with each other is because they have complete acceptance.
ReplyDeleteThey say that the key to true happiness is low expectations. Read this: http://www.freakonomics.com/2007/01/09/the-secret-to-happiness/
I think you're sacrificing your happiness for a disingenuous perfect fairy tale. Here's a checklist, he has to be this and he has to be that. Sounds really stressful.
Have you genuinely tried to connect with someone emotionally without judging them? Learned about what makes them tick? I think that once you start listening, stop judging, and start accepting, you'll find that you can get along and enjoy the company of many eligible men.