Monday, June 12, 2017

Long Vacation

I still hear from the Ex Guy and I'm still not really talking about it because there's nothing to talk about.  I've asked myself a new question though.  Even if he did fix whatever needed to be fixed, would I even want him?  I don't think so.  The good times were so good and the bad times were so bad.

My focus has not been on dating for the last month.  I've been working on trip planning.  I am going on a long vacation this summer.  We'll visit three countries (at minimum) in Europe.  I think I usually take a vacation from dating over the summer?  It sorta seems like most of this year...

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  1. As someone who lives in Western Europe and travelled al over Europe, hit me up if you need some help or tips with planning.

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    1. Thanks, Jurgen! We sorta winged it. Turned out great!

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  2. Reading your blog is educational and also very depressing. You're very high maintenance and only have time for yourself. The good news is that you're proactively seeking spending time with your friends but your standards are too high.

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    1. Thanks. Perhaps you should ask yourself why you are settling. Why do I say this? Because anyone in the world should believe in themselves and what they have to offer. No crumbs, no scrubs, et al

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  3. I totally get your frustration but you have to remember men are human not perfect robots. From what you've written if the guy isn't exactly on point you give up. But again, life is about choices and you're free to do what you want.

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    1. Thanks. Yes, we all have choices and make them as we see fit. Have you ever really liked someone and months later found yourself irratated by everything they do? The way they chew, they way they walk, the way they talk, et al? I take the shortcut. When I write off a guy, it's because I already know it won't work out and don't want to waste the time or energy. Not once have I given someone a chance against my better judgement and had it work out

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  4. After breaking up with my boyfriend, I was left with nothing but heartache and a plane ticket. I’m glad that I traveled alone, I wouldn't have learned to love myself completely if I had stayed.

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    1. Hi Eden, that's great!! How long were you gone?

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