Wednesday, December 28, 2016

Flaking

There's been a lot of flaking over the past month.  Guys asking me out for coffee, drinks, lunch, or dinner and not picking a time or place.  I also didn't ask for a time or a place, I'll shoulder my half of the blame.  Why does it not bother me that these guys flaked?  I'm not really interested in any of them. I agreed to go, just to "get out there" and meet new people.  I also prefer to stay bundled up in my warm apartment, it's cold and windy out.

Why did they flake?  Perhaps they feel the same way?  Who cares?  I've been dating long enough to know that if a guy's that interested in meeting me, he will make sure he meets me.  Staying in vs meeting a guy who's not very interested?  Staying in will always win.  I feel well rested from not having gone on any dates in the last two weeks.

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