New Year's Eve

It's New Year's Eve and I am going out!  Ummm, I don't have plans on kissing anyone when the ball drops, but you never know.  A friend is throwing a party with 100 people or so?  Why yes, I did use to date this "friend..."

Friendships Between Guys and Gals

I am a firm believer of - guys and girls cannot be "just friends."  There are some exceptions that would only apply to 10% of the population (girl used to go out with guy's best friend, girl is someone's sister, etc).

This article in Scientific American says guys have more trouble being "just friends" with a girl.  I believe it!  I have guy friends who think that they are in line to be a boyfriend, they are just not up to bat yet.  No!

Crazy

I drive myself crazy every now and then.  I think about things I don't care about.  Why do I do this?  Do I have too much free time on my hands?  Do I need a hobby?  Should I pick up any book and read it?

This is my dilemma...even though I know The Brain and I have had issues in the past, still think he's no so bad.  My memory is apparently so so bad.  On the bright side, because I've seen The Brain a lot, I've totally stopped thinking about Smart Guy.  Everything happens for a reason.  The Brain has helped me permanently remove Smart Guy from my head and life.  Nothing like getting rid of a guy because I'm thinking about another one!

The Brain was kind of a dbag years ago, so was I.  Have either of us changed that much where it would work?

Merry Christmas

I would like a lot of new potential guys when I come out of my break from guys in 2013.

Merry Christmas!

Gratitude

People always say happiness is tied to gratitude.  Generally speaking, I am pretty happy.  Why not?  Here's some stuff I am thankful for:

• A good job with health insurance that doesn't require me to work 80 hours a week
• Being well educated
• Cool friends and family
• Ability to laugh
• A peaceful relatively stress-free life
• Funds to buy whatever I want to buy, go where ever I want to go, eat whatever I want to eat, do whatever I want to do (true, I don't want extravagant things)
• No sh*tty roommates

OkCupid Emails

A friend sent this to me.  It's pretty funny.  I've gotten some good contenders via OkC for the worst emails ever.  One guy said, "Your profile is boring" and expected me to reply to that.  Others are sarcastic and cynical.  Who wants a cynical, complainy, whiny guy?  If you do, I know just the guy for you!

Must Remember

So much to remember.  For example, stop thinking high a OkC match % means something substantial.  Or how about, if I think someone is negative, I must have some evidence supporting this even though I can't remember specific examples (highly doubt I've haphazardly labeled someone as negative).  "Potential" is just that, know when to cut losses.  Stop entertaining the idea a guy because I know he is REALLY into me.