Kate Middleton And Prince William

I want what Kate Middleton and Prince William have.  Those two seem very genuinely in love with each other.  They have been together for over 10 years and are still into each other!  Many marriages don't even last that long.  Look at Katy Perry and Russell Brand.  Or, how about Kim Kardashian and Kris Humphries?  That was doomed and it was soooooo obvious.

So what is it that keeps Kate and William together?  Is it the fact that they basically grew up together?  Is it their many shared interests?  Is it the fact that Kate is totally poised?  Maybe because they were dating all through college and their young adult lives?

Large Frame

After examining San Francisco men/guys/man children, I think I know why I haven't seen many I am attracted to; it's because of the lack of large frames.  I want guys that have broad shoulders, height, big bones, etc.  Unfortunately, a majority of the guys I have met in SF do not fall into that category.  Maybe I should move.  Yup, this again.

Get Off The Pill

Over the past year or so, I have seen many articles talking about birth control and how it makes women react to met differently when they are on versus off it.  Basically single girls (hopefully you aren't already married before you try this), to figure out if you are really into the guy you are dating, get off hormonal birth control (pill, ring, etc).  According to these studies, many women find themselves NOT sexually attracted to their partners after they discontinue hormonal birth control usage.

Dating Is Huge

Finally read all my emails.  Dating is huge.  Everyone is looking for someone and all this is apparently blowing up all over the internet.  Had a bunch of folks contact me about guest blogging, advertising on my blog, trying out their products, wanting to meet in person, etc.  Meeting in person probably isn't a good idea since I don't want people to actually know who I am.

My Bad

My bad, I haven't logged in since my last post over a month ago.  I have 150 unread emails.  Totally plan on getting to them!

I posted some comments people left for me.  One was from a post I wrote back in December about Valley Guy.  Gosh,  the comment guy sounds mad...a little too mad.  Hitting too close to home?  Here are some of my favorite lines with my commentary:

• The entries on this blog paint the portrait of a woman who is unbelievably condescending, narcissistic, judgmental, shallow, rude, and self-entitled.
• I would agree with condescending and rude (at times, I am not always condescending and rude, but look at what I am working with here)!  Some of you readers actually know me in real life, so it's quite humorous that I am being called narcissistic, judgmental, shallow, and self-entitled
• Their only crime seems to be that they possess some ridiculously unimportant "flaw" that is a automatic dealbreaker for you ("too short" "didn't go to a good enough college", etc).
• I think the guy may have gone to a sh*tty college and is probably short.  Well, his comment was pretty well written, so he probably went to a good college and is short
• Listen, we are all trying to find the "right" person.  My "right" person went to a good school and is taller than me.  I don't go around telling people that the characteristics they are interested in finding are "unimportant."  Pal with the long comment seems like he is judging me, wouldn't you say?  Er hem, hypocrite!!!
• You also seem to have an irrationally supreme belief in your own universal appeal to the opposite sex - even in one entry assuming without question that you could immediately break up an existing couple (Surfer Guy and his girlfriend), despite knowing next to nothing about the state of their relationship. Do you really consider yourself such an catch that any man would just leave his existing partner for a chance with you?  
• Yes, the opportunity has presented itself several times.  Two of the guys were married with kids; one of those had a newborn.  Of course, I turned them down!  As for Surfer Guy, he has made it abundantly clear late last year.  No thanks.
• The reason you're having so much trouble is because you are competing with girls who are, frankly, better/nicer people than you are.
• This guy definitely doesn't know me, I don't compete and I never said I was nice!

No Drinking

No more drinking on first dates.  I hate drink dates.  They are stupid.  I need a clear head to fully evaluate the guy sitting across from me and drinking makes this impossible.  I think guys know this, which is why they like drink dates.  I haven't met many girls that aren't friendlier after they get a drink in.

I went out with this guy a couple of weeks ago for drinks.  I thought he was hilarious.  Then I saw him again sober...yeah, not that funny anymore.

Holiday Parties

I am glad it is the end of the holiday party season.  I have eaten too much, drank too much, and met too many people I never want to see again.  I guess the last part isn't that true.  I have been to some really cool parties and met interesting people.  Unfortunately, not interesting people I would want to date.